top of page

Third-Party Assisted Reproduction Evaluations

Building a family through egg or sperm donation, gestational carriers, or embryo adoption, is a deeply personal and transformative journey. At Better Being Psychology Group, we provide specialized counseling, assessments, and screenings to support individuals and couples navigating the emotional, psychological, and practical complexities of third-party reproduction. Our compassionate, experienced therapists are here to guide you through every step, ensuring you feel informed, supported, and empowered as you create your family. The family building process using Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) involves unique decisions and emotional challenges, from selecting donors or gestational carriers to navigating conversations about conception with children, family, or friends. Additionally, intended parents may be required by reproductive specialists to undergo educational consultations to address critical topics such as disclosure, future contact with donors or surrogates, and managing remaining embryos. At Better Being, we offer a safe, inclusive, and non-judgmental space to explore these topics, process your emotions, and make decisions that align with your values and goals.

How Counseling Can Help

Family building using ART involves complex emotional, ethical, and relational considerations. Counseling provides a dedicated space to process the range of emotions that arise, from excitement and hope to uncertainty or grief. By working with a skilled therapist, you can:

  • Gain Emotional Clarity: Explore and process the complex emotions that come with third-party reproduction, such as joy, anxiety, or ambivalence.

  • Make Informed Decisions: Thoughtful guidance helps you navigate choices about donors, gestational carriers, embryo disposition, and disclosure with confidence.

  • Strengthen Relationships: For couples, counseling fosters open communication, mutual understanding, and teamwork during the family-building process.

  • Build Confidence in Parenting: Learn how to share your family’s story with your child and others in a way that promotes connection and pride.

  • Reduce Stress and Isolation: Counseling provides a safe space to express your feelings and feel supported, reducing the sense of navigating this journey alone.

Who Can Benefit from Our Services?

We are committed to providing inclusive, affirming care for all clients, including those in the LGBTQ+ community, single parents by choice, and heterosexual couples. Our approach is collaborative and tailored to your unique needs, helping you navigate the practical, emotional, and relational aspects of nontraditional family building with compassion and expertise. Our counseling and assessment services are designed for anyone involved in nontraditional family building, including:

  • Individuals considering egg or sperm freezing for future family planning.

  • Egg or sperm donors seeking psychological evaluations.

  • Gestational carriers preparing for the surrogacy process.

  • Intended parents undergoing third-party reproduction or adoption.

  • Couples navigating decisions about donors, surrogates, or embryo disposition.

  • Families seeking guidance on how to discuss donor conception or surrogacy with children or others.

Who We Help

Our counseling and assessment services are tailored to meet the diverse needs of individuals and couples pursuing using ART for family building. Whether you’re considering egg or sperm freezing, undergoing donor or gestational carrier evaluations, or seeking guidance on how to discuss your family-building journey with others, we provide comprehensive support for individuals and couples in the following areas:

  • Decisions About Egg or Sperm Freezing: Deciding to freeze eggs or sperm is a significant step that involves weighing medical, emotional, and financial factors. We offer counseling to help you explore your motivations, understand the process, and make informed decisions that feel right for you.

  • Egg and Sperm Donor Psychological Evaluations: Our therapists conduct thorough, compassionate psychological assessments for egg and sperm donors, ensuring they meet the emotional and psychological criteria for donation. These evaluations provide intended parents with confidence in their donor selection process.

  • Gestational Carrier Psychological Evaluations: We provide psychological screenings for gestational carriers, assessing their emotional readiness, motivations, and understanding of the surrogacy process. Our evaluations prioritize the well-being of all parties involved, fostering a positive and ethical experience.

  • Reproductive Consultations for Intended Parents: Many reproductive specialists require intended parents to participate in educational consultations with a psychologist. We guide you through key topics, such as how and when to disclose third-party reproduction to your child, selecting a donor or gestational carrier, planning for future contact, and deciding what to do with remaining embryos. These consultations empower you to make thoughtful, informed choices.

  • Helping Couples Determine Their Best Course of Action for Nontraditional Family Building: Choosing the right path—whether through donor conception, surrogacy, or adoption—can feel overwhelming. We work with couples to explore options, clarify priorities, and navigate relational dynamics to ensure both partners feel aligned and supported.

  • How to Talk to Children About Their Conception: Discussing donor conception or surrogacy with children requires sensitivity and care. We provide guidance on age-appropriate ways to share your family’s unique story, fostering openness, understanding, and pride in their origins.

  • Decisions About Disclosure to Coworkers, Friends, and Family Members: Deciding whether and how to share your nontraditional family-building journey with others can be challenging. We help you navigate these conversations, set boundaries, and communicate your story with confidence and clarity.

Doctor reviewing fertility health results during reproduction evaluation session
bottom of page